Comments on: Expressing our selves http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/ Field stones for expansive (professional) optimism Thu, 20 Nov 2008 11:33:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Jim Bullock http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-8 Jim Bullock Mon, 22 May 2006 19:46:43 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-8 What graphic tool are you using to create those diagrams? What graphic tool are you using to create those diagrams?

]]> By: Nynke http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-9 Nynke Wed, 24 May 2006 18:47:57 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-9 Mostly mind and imagination visualisation in parts party (Nynke Fokma), then Inkscape and Gimp when working with Kwetal (Ubuntu Linux), and Visio and Photoshop when working with Urgje (XP M$). Mostly mind and imagination visualisation in parts party (Nynke Fokma), then Inkscape and Gimp when working with Kwetal (Ubuntu Linux), and Visio and Photoshop when working with Urgje (XP M$).

]]> By: Pat Sciacca http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-37 Pat Sciacca Sun, 28 May 2006 21:23:30 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-37 Nynke, I really liked this entry - especially the drawing. I was wondering though if you speak trully to another and are heard does the arrow really go back to feeling bad? Pat Nynke,

I really liked this entry - especially the drawing.

I was wondering though if you speak trully to another and are heard does the arrow really go back to feeling bad?

Pat

]]> By: Nynke http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-46 Nynke Tue, 30 May 2006 12:01:17 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-46 Pat, thank you ever so much for the kind words and feedback. Would this change work? <div style="text-align: center"><img id="image73" alt="expressing.jpg" src="http://nynke.andering.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/05/expressing.jpg" /></div> Pat, thank you ever so much for the kind words and feedback.
Would this change work?

expressing.jpg
]]> By: Pat Sciacca http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-47 Pat Sciacca Tue, 30 May 2006 14:37:53 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-47 Nynke, I like the addition. Do you? Pat Nynke,

I like the addition. Do you?

Pat

]]> By: Nynke http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-48 Nynke Tue, 30 May 2006 15:15:15 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-48 Pat, I do, very much so. It gives away (makes explicit) a first simple intervention for helping/facilitating self and each other. Encouragement can take on many forms. A short snapshot from the last two weeks: providing space and time for someone to express themselves (someone may be self, life, or other), or a paint kit, audio visual tools, a balancing act, meditations, articles like Rick's Inner Babble, an email from Emmanuel, Ron, Marc, Bernard, Raphael, or Stiles, music or a phone call from Willem, a chat with Maroesja, a skype call with Lynne, sessions and exchanges at consultants camp, feedback on blog entries like what you just gave me, ... ... ...? Much appreciated! Love, Nynke Pat,

I do, very much so. It gives away (makes explicit) a first simple intervention for helping/facilitating self and each other.

Encouragement can take on many forms. A short snapshot from the last two weeks: providing space and time for someone to express themselves (someone may be self, life, or other), or a paint kit, audio visual tools, a balancing act, meditations, articles like Rick’s Inner Babble, an email from Emmanuel, Ron, Marc, Bernard, Raphael, or Stiles, music or a phone call from Willem, a chat with Maroesja, a skype call with Lynne, sessions and exchanges at consultants camp, feedback on blog entries like what you just gave me, … … …?

Much appreciated!

Love,

Nynke

]]> By: nynke.andering » Blog Archive » Whining to Win Wine http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-71 nynke.andering » Blog Archive » Whining to Win Wine Thu, 08 Jun 2006 07:59:32 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-71 [...] When we stifle our selves by judging our “whining”, we stifle our higher selves listening to our deeper selves, and we will never discover the needs of self, life, and others we have been and are overlooking. If we do allow our selves some “whining”, and (with some help or not) truly listen to our selves when we do that we can learn to channel lower energies by which we become more effective at channelling our higher energies. [...] […] When we stifle our selves by judging our “whining”, we stifle our higher selves listening to our deeper selves, and we will never discover the needs of self, life, and others we have been and are overlooking. If we do allow our selves some “whining”, and (with some help or not) truly listen to our selves when we do that we can learn to channel lower energies by which we become more effective at channelling our higher energies. […]

]]> By: Willem van den Ende http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-76 Willem van den Ende Thu, 08 Jun 2006 10:19:57 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-76 Hi Nynke, in the May 30th version of the diagrams it says 'feelings of guit'. Should be 'feelings of guilt'. Misspelling it does make it more stand out :) . I hope the diagram doesn't feel guilty after the fear that comes from showing its' true self ;) Love, Willem Hi Nynke,

in the May 30th version of the diagrams it says ‘feelings of guit’. Should be ‘feelings of guilt’. Misspelling it does make it more stand out :) .

I hope the diagram doesn’t feel guilty after the fear that comes from showing its’ true self ;)

Love,

Willem

]]> By: Nynke http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-79 Nynke Thu, 08 Jun 2006 18:55:43 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-79 Hi Willem, Apparently the diagram doesn't feel guilt. It does seem to harbor some feelings of regret that it isn't perfect (yet). So it is using your feedback to "get closer" to express it's true self more perfectly clear :-) <div><img alt="expression4.jpg" id="image89" src="http://nynke.andering.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/06/expression4.jpg" /></div> Actually, the diagram seems to feel encouraged by the personal interest you seem to take in it, for apparently you find it worthy of your feedback. Hi Willem,

Apparently the diagram doesn’t feel guilt. It does seem to harbor some feelings of regret that it isn’t perfect (yet). So it is using your feedback to “get closer” to express it’s true self more perfectly clear :-)

expression4.jpg

Actually, the diagram seems to feel encouraged by the personal interest you seem to take in it, for apparently you find it worthy of your feedback.

]]> By: nynke.andering » Blog Archive » Game ingredients http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-88 nynke.andering » Blog Archive » Game ingredients Sat, 10 Jun 2006 10:38:28 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-88 [...] Focus: Expressing ourselves and truly listening to each other’s whining while sipping wine or beer. [...] […] Focus: Expressing ourselves and truly listening to each other’s whining while sipping wine or beer. […]

]]> By: nynke.andering » Blog Archive » Obviously http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-95 nynke.andering » Blog Archive » Obviously Sun, 11 Jun 2006 21:10:48 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-95 [...] If we were to call each other stupid for not seeing what is obvious to the other, we would both be stupid. If obvious exclamations are interpreted as saying others are stupid, the perceiver of that stupidness already felt stupid for that could be named “projection”. Has nothing to do with our obvious exclamations as a result from sudden insights. These stupidities could all lead to stifling and no body wins. [...] […] If we were to call each other stupid for not seeing what is obvious to the other, we would both be stupid. If obvious exclamations are interpreted as saying others are stupid, the perceiver of that stupidness already felt stupid for that could be named “projection”. Has nothing to do with our obvious exclamations as a result from sudden insights. These stupidities could all lead to stifling and no body wins. […]

]]> By: Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Spirals down can go up http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-172 Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Spirals down can go up Thu, 22 Jun 2006 13:39:09 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-172 [...] This then could mean upper management will not take responsibility and the company becomes a headless body and upper management a mad stakeholder, using budgets for powerplays more than for useful resource distribution for moving forward. [...] […] This then could mean upper management will not take responsibility and the company becomes a headless body and upper management a mad stakeholder, using budgets for powerplays more than for useful resource distribution for moving forward. […]

]]> By: Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Unplanned futures http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-266 Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Unplanned futures Thu, 13 Jul 2006 10:21:44 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-266 [...] Neck, throat, jaw, ears, voice, trachea, bronchial system, upper lungs, esophagus, arms (expressing our selves) [...] […] Neck, throat, jaw, ears, voice, trachea, bronchial system, upper lungs, esophagus, arms (expressing our selves) […]

]]> By: Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Blogging Benefits http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-465 Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Blogging Benefits Sun, 20 Aug 2006 12:07:32 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-465 [...] When I write an entry, I don’t have to carry that what I have written about, inside me. It helps me to “let-go” of some things. I noticed this effect through a looking-glass, when it was enhanced by Willem setting up back-ups to back-up our server. My blog has truly become my journal. By blogging, I give myself a powerful form of self-expression, and through that expression I can gain clarity, release, and relief. And sometimes that takes me rewriting an entry several times. [...] […] When I write an entry, I don’t have to carry that what I have written about, inside me. It helps me to “let-go” of some things. I noticed this effect through a looking-glass, when it was enhanced by Willem setting up back-ups to back-up our server. My blog has truly become my journal. By blogging, I give myself a powerful form of self-expression, and through that expression I can gain clarity, release, and relief. And sometimes that takes me rewriting an entry several times. […]

]]> By: Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Awakening http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-852 Stone Circles » Blog Archive » Awakening Fri, 20 Oct 2006 19:48:03 +0000 http://nynke.andering.com/2006/05/22/expressing-our-selves/#comment-852 [...] Knowing this, (re)cognizing this, the hard part of the work has already been done. We can choose to experiment with intervening in our own “happiness” under safe conditions. In safe settings (and we determine for our selves when and where that is) we can choose to open our selves up towards others (again), in particular others of the “opposite” sex. We can learn the dance of creation and enjoy the flow of energies these dances can create in us. [...] […] Knowing this, (re)cognizing this, the hard part of the work has already been done. We can choose to experiment with intervening in our own “happiness” under safe conditions. In safe settings (and we determine for our selves when and where that is) we can choose to open our selves up towards others (again), in particular others of the “opposite” sex. We can learn the dance of creation and enjoy the flow of energies these dances can create in us. […]

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